With the end of the final exams everywhere, the children have also entered the long-awaited summer vacation life.How to let the children have this summer vacation rich and full, but become the number one problem for every parent.

Albert Einstein once said: the gap between people arises in his spare time.Summer vacation, may make a child become slack and degenerate, but also may become a turning point of the child's fate.If you want your children to be more promising in the future, parents should do these 10 things with their children during the summer vacation.

Take the child to do farm work

Many children stay at home every day on the holiday, living a privileged life, become more lazy, degenerate.Every summer vacation, I will take my children back to their hometown to live for a few days.

In addition to escaping from the concrete city cage and relaxing the body and mind, it is more important to take him to experience the hard work.

I think of the boy who was taken to the countryside by his father because he did not finish his homework. After picking dung for half a long time and experiencing the hardship of life, he finally made up his mind to study hard, finish his homework on time, and be a promising person. Children soaked in the honey pot, do not feel the difficulty of life, also do not realize the importance of reading for life. To these "saplings" life of hone, let them appropriate hardship, will let the children be transformed, more cherish the current learning time.

Take the child to climb the mountain once

If the child usually give up halfway, encounter a little setback to give up, then I suggest to take the child to climb a mountain. When her daughter Li Yan was one and a half years old, Li Yapeng began to take her to climb the suburbs of Beijing; by the time she was 5, Xiao Li Yan was able to climb the whole mountain alone. From the foot of the mountain to the top of the mountain is about 17 kilometers, she can not only take 7 or 8 hours to complete independently, but also scientifically allocate limited water and physical strength. Now, xiao Li Yan, who was born with defects, is very sunny, confident and generous.

In fact, climbing can not only strengthen the body, promote brain development, but more importantly, temper the strong will, let the children learn to insist. The way to climb the mountain is always long and boring, but also the test of physical strength and endurance, many children will shout bitter shout tired, want to give up. At this time, parents must not easily compromise, can slow down, gentle and powerful to encourage children. Even if it is just climbing a small step up, but also to cheer for the child in time.

When the child went through countless hardships and finally went to the top, the kind of vast shock and joy, will leave an indelible impression on his heart.In this process, the child will also understand that the road to success is destined to be full of hardships and sweat, but as long as there is enough perseverance to stick to it, the harvest will be the most wonderful scenery.

Take your child on a long road trip

Some time ago, a father and son became hot search:The 14-year-old boy didn't want to go to school, so his father quit and took him on driving trips across China. The father and son started from Dandong Donggang and passed through Shanhaiguan, Kaifeng, Xi'an and other places. They learned a lot about Chinese history and culture. This journey not only narrowed the distance between father and son, but also let the boy see the bigger world, and changed his ideological attitude towards learning from the mind. A trip, not only broadened the child's horizon, but also changed his outlook on life. America and Asia once said:"When you have seen the broad world, have seen the state of all living beings, you will find that the heart will be more brave and confident.”

If the family can, take your children on a long trip during the long vacation. Good education is not about reading a child in a small room.Let the children go out from the textbook, see the broad world, experience the whole state of life, in order to better resist the wind and rain in the future life.

Cultivate a specialty

A mother on Zhihu posted this post:

On the first day of college, she cried and called her and said, why didn't she force her to master one or two specialties when she was a child? It turned out that whether after the first day of military training, everyone took turns to show talent, or various clubs to recruit new, she could only stand aside dry watching. Because she can do nothing but read. On the contrary, those children who have interests and specialties are not only more calm and confident, but also always more competitive in the future. Lingyundeng, known as a talented painter born after 2000, began to learn painting in the third grade. In the summer vacation of the third year of junior high school, he drew five works with pen and uploaded them to Tieba. They became popular. Later, he opened his own painting exhibition. Because of this specialty, although his academic performance is ordinary, but he still becomes the best among his peers. Maybe not every child can have such a talent, but every child should have their own choice. We help the children to choose special classes must follow the children's preferences and wishes.Cultivating a child's special skill may not be able to rewrite life, but can expand the width of life, enrich the spiritual world, and help him see more scenery of life.

Exercise for half an hour a day

During the two sessions, Tang Jiangpeng, president of Jiangsu Province, proposed:

"A good education should be to cultivate lifelong athletes, responsibility, problem solvers and elegant life, and to give children a good and sound personality.”

Among them, the cultivation of lifelong athletes is ranked in the first place. Tang Chuyue, the top scorer in science in Hubei province last year, has often participated in various sports since she was a child. During the epidemic, she played badminton for an hour with her family at home every day, and took the second place in the 200-meter sprint at the school sports meeting. It is sports that makes her keep a good attitude in her study. On weekdays, most children are busy with their studies, and the holidays are the best time to take their children to exercise. Half an hour a day, the small square downstairs, the nearby park, even in the empty roof of the home, are a good place to take children to sports. A weak body can never cultivate a dynamic soul and wisdom.Use the summer vacation to help children cultivate a strong body, in order to meet all kinds of challenges in the new semester.

Take your children to read some good books

As soon as the 2021 college entrance examination ended, the composition questions in various provinces quickly became hot searches. Many netizens in the comments section have exploded:

Do not understand do not understand, fortunately I have finished the college entrance examination;

The current composition topic is really difficult compared to our time...

These questions have profound meaning, twists and turns, and really need extraordinary understanding ability. Have to sigh, since childhood do not cultivate children's reading habits, in the future is likely to even read the composition topic can not understand, early lost at the starting line. In fact, the top students in the previous college entrance examination, those outstanding students in famous universities, almost all have the same characteristics: start reading from an early age. Wu Yishu's mother once said: from the age of one and a half, she began to cultivate children's reading, first from interesting picture books, and then to 300 Tang poems and various poems and literature.

Usually at home will often appear a family of three each holding a book quietly reading scene. To cultivate children's reading habits and improve their reading ability, parents need to set an example and work together with their children. In the holiday, parents might as well accompany their children to choose a few good books, calm down to read carefully.Children who develop the habit of reading from an early age will surely blossom at some moment in the future.

Take your child to practice calligraphy at home

Questions were asked in the comments section:

My child is impetuous, do what things all hairy, lack of patience, what should I do with him?

My advice is to take the children to practice calligraphy. Because you need to stare at the calligraphy, which requires a high level of concentration and patience. In this process, the child's mood will be more and more magnmagnous, slowly develop focus, rigorous, careful and other good habits. In addition, a good word is also the most easy to get "plus".